Am i ready to start dating again
I'm including this section of the book specifically for any widowers who might be reading it.Dating again after the death of a spouse can be an awkward experience.I started dating five months after my late wife died. And though it took a few dates to get the hang of things, I have no regrets about dating that soon.If you feel like dating again, take some time to understand why you have this desire.
Answer questions he or she may have about your marriage, but don't spend all your time talking about the dead or how happy you were. And who knows—she might make you incredibly happy for years to come.If you find yourself dating just to talk about the pain in your heart, how much you miss your spouse, or tough times you're going though, seek professional help.Spending an hour on professional help will do you much more good than spending the same amount of money for dinner and a movie.Constantly talking about the past may make it seem like you're not ready to move on and start a new relationship.Showing a genuine interest in your date and getting to know her wants, interests, and dreams goes a long way you're ready to start a new life with someone else.