Speed dating older
"We get to these later ages in life and you were raising the kids, everyone's working, and now all of a sudden it's like, 'I don't really know you and I don't really like you,'" Black said of why many people get divorced at an older age.
"It's much more acceptable today to do that, so there's a lot of reasons why people find themselves single." Although the common belief that the divorce rate continues to rise has been mostly disproved, 40 to 50 percent of marriages in the United States end in divorce, according to the American Psychological Association.
So how do the rules of dating change when you’ve recently lost a spouse, suffered through a divorce or just been on your own for quite some time? Donna Lindenau, 70, walked into the event hesitantly.
Widowed two years ago, she came at the insistence of a friend in Bradenton."I'm a little skittish," she said with a smile, looking unsure.
"It was the most beautiful story." By the end of the night, some budding relationships seemed to be emerging at Aviva as well."I'm looking for friendship — it's possible I might meet someone."As Lindenau lingered around the room, 71-year-old Brian Connolly fearlessly approached several women, asking them one of the ice-breaker questions on his clipboard.Connolly's exuberant grin and rosy cheeks seemed to make him an ideal candidate for a speed-dating event, where a willingness to put oneself out there is perhaps the most important factor in potential success.With a charming smile and winning personality, 66-year-old Michael Bernard, who is divorced with children, came to the speed-dating event to help out, ironically, his girlfriend.Bernard actively pursued a relationship after his divorce.